August 7, 2001
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How To Know If You Found A Good Man
just_margie's says "Girls, you know you've found the right one if you can say to yourself, 'I don't think I can replace this... ever."
I'd like to add that if you wake up every day and feel like you've just won the Man Lottery, you've probably got a keeper. This is how I usually find myself waking up.
Further, this doesn't mean finding "A man that can support you" -- either financially, spiritually, physically or emotionally. Do yourself and the man a favor and have your act together FIRST, before hooking up. Then, find a man who has HIS act together. When two healthy people merge, it's a beautiful thing. There's nothing more attractive than a person who doesn't necessarily NEED you, but rather WANTS you.
I think I should quit blogging today. I'm ranting.
Comments (13)
nah, you're doin' good
But I for one love your rants. They are so right on!
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yup.
this is me------------>
working on that!
V~
I guess that is why Richard and I get along so well. We want to.
Good advice! Having your own shit together is pretty important. Then you'll naturally take care of each other, won't you?
You are so right! Dan and I have said that wanting each other is much better than needing!
Great post. I just got married 2 weeks ago...to a man I wake up to or look at and could never imagine finding a replacement for. I finally married for no other reason than I loved him. Not so he could support me or take care of me or make me look good or.....whatever. Our relationship has alot of give and take, with both of us giving and taking at different times. You made me smile whe I read this. thanks!
That was a "rant"? Come on, honey! You can do better than THAT!!!
The Duchess
Sadzi, you are absolutely and completely 100% on the freaking money.
I concur!
Keep ranting.. i like it. Further, I fully agree with you.
yet another in complete agreement here
keep "ranting"!
I've got a keeper! If I ever make the stupid mistake of trying to throw him back, please whallop me seven shades of blue!