July 20, 2001
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It’s A Done Deal
The encouragement I got from all of you yesterday was AMAZING! Thank you, thank you.
Well, I did it. I let her go. I had forgotten to mention what an incredibly over-sensitive person she is yesterday, and for this reason, I didn’t go into her flaws. She’s 47 and has been at jobs where these same issues have been presented to her, and she doesn’t see anything that needs to be corrected. I doubt that I, younger than her, could change her mind.
She actually seemed sort of relieved. It’s kind of like when you break up with a boy/girlfriend, and it’s sad but a relief, because everyone involved knew it wasn’t really a good thing anyway. Know what I mean?
So, anyway, onward and upward. Your words of advice, support and encouragement strengthened me. Honestly. Thank you.
Comments (8)
Oh WEE-WIEF! Glad it went this way Sadzi.
*twitches* when I broke up with my bf, he didn't think it was a good thing...he still dosen't.
But am glad your situation cleared up!!!!
I'm glad to hear it went relatively painlessly. I know how it is, to be told to change things that I have no intention of changing, there really is no point.
Glad you had the courage of your convictions & it went well.
ok great!
but tell me this.......did you pat her on the ass after you fired her?
i do that....and it works great.
they leave a lot quicker.
LOL
ok i'm only kidding.
actually in my line of work i touch a lot of asses...ack.
omg! i just remembered....one time a lady totally put her hand in my crotch...the sad thing was...she didnt realize it was my whowho she touched.
=(
that was a bad day.....sniffle.
If she were relieved she probably knew she wasnt doing her best and was worrying about this at home. Her leaving is probably a weight off both of your shoulders. I'm glad it worked out for you
Just because.